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Celebrating ONE year of gypsy life: the top 10 things we learned...

5/3/2017

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What a year!
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May 3rd 2017 marks our one-year-anniversary of the day we moved into our camper full-time to embark on a journey of discovery, travel and togetherness! Last May, after selling the house and quitting the corporate job, we decided to set off on an open-ended adventure to drive thru Mexico and Central America. We have covered thousands of miles, countless smiles, completely renovating our lifestyle. We made unforgettable memories and new friends from all over the world. We also admittedly made a few silly mistakes and wrong turns along the way. But who's counting? We have grown a lot. There have been ups and downs, trial by fire, a lot of adjustments, and after one year, this is what we learned:
We don't need much! The Crystal Startship (our rig) is an all-in-one house, transportation vehicle, closet, kitchen, bed(s), library, tool-chest, and fun zone. It is our sanctuary and our livelihood. All together, it weighs roughly 6,000 pounds. We often contemplate our carbon footprint upon this earth, and we think our move into camper life has reduced our environmental impact quite significantly. Life in our 20x10 ft  shoe box is really quite simple.

Here are some of the calculations we have come up with: We have cut back our gray water consumption to a minuscule 18 gallons a week- this is all the water that we use for dish-washing, food prep, and hygiene. Bathing in natural bodies of water is a nice treat, and we seek out opportunities to jump into waterfalls, hot springs, and the magnificent ocean whenever we can (and often a better option than public showers.) Our rooftop solar system provides ample power for running our high-efficiency fridge, lights, plus enough for us to power our blender, operate our air compressor and small power tools, and charge up our laptop, phone, and cameras. We avoid processed foods and buy a lot of local produce with our reusable shopping bags. Shopping at small farmers markets puts money directly into the hands of the people who grow the food. We also opt to buy things in bulk, recycling when possible, and seeking out compost piles for our organic waste to help reduce our footprint.
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Of course, we are still relying heavily on fossil fuels to travel long distances but here is the ironic part- we actually used less gasoline this past year driving to Costa Rica then we would have living our suburban life in Michigan- considering that Mark used to have a 50-mile-a-day commute and we were a two-car family living in an isolated and semi-rural area. In fact, our mileage this past year has been about on par with what it would be if all we were doing was commuting to and from work. Even after adding 2,000 pounds to the Tacoma with the addition of the camper and utility boxes, we still get an average of 14 miles-to-the-gallon- a big advantage of driving a small quarter-ton truck instead of one of the big rigs.
We always have what we need 
​Always. The first months of camper life, probably about 25% of what we initially packed with us was either lost or broken. And of course, at first, we mourned these little material losses. But in the end, I think it was the universe's way of telling us that we had too much “stuff.” We also learned to value the things that we have by taking better care of them. Our home is a moving vessle where things shift around, bump up and down, blow in the wind, and occasionally, get rained on. We have learned to make sure that everything is cleaned and put away properly, secured, tied-down, or stored where it belongs. Failure to take care of our posessions promptly resulted in seeing these things get lost or destroyed. Among the lost-but-not forgotten things- we have said goodbye plenty of beautiful glass and ceramic dishes, jars of hard-to-find spices, perfectly good organic eggs, shoes that were forgotten on the bumper, a huge collection of sand toys, an economy sized bottle of Dr Bronners we nearly cried over, and tools that we never put back where they belong. No finger-pointing :) Once you drive away, it's history- you will never find it again no matter how many times you drive up and down the same dirt road.

That being said, it is also extremely useful to install extra latches, locks, bungee cords, and carribeaners to ensure that the things you value stay where you put them! Organization is so important when living and growing together in small quarters. 

Another piece of advice: pay attention! It's so easy to get wrapped up in the scenery or the map or the toddler drama, but our absent-minded mistakes sort of seemed to come up as personal reminders or alarms to simply wake up and look around! The universe has incredible mercy in this way. A lot of what we lost was wrapped in a message to just be more present and practice mindfulness. Awakening to a higher state of awareness has prevented the occurance of more serious mishaps for us in the long run.

(PS: we also hope that the little things we lost ended up in the hands of someone who has used and enjoyed them more than we did)
Nothing will ever be “finished”
We are constantly making changes to our truck, our camper, and our lifestyle. At first, we thought we would eventually arrive at this moment in time where all of our projects were complete. However, regular maintenance is needed nearly everyday to keep things running smoothly- this means that Mark is giving the rig some extra love every chance he gets. Daily, he is giving the tires a good look-over to make sure there are no punctures and also that they are wearing evenly and doing an alignment if necessary, adjusting the air pressure in the air bags and tires, making sure that there is enough oil and coolant, no leaks anywhere, the frame and welding looks strong, the charge controller and batteries are in good shape, and that the camper is properly secured with the cables. On a weekly basis, Mark checks the roof to make sure there are no tears that need to be repaired to avoid water damage, and that the solar panels are clean and functioning properly. All this might seem like a lot of work but it prevents small problems from turning into larger issues in the long-term. Along the way, we have added solar power, designed custom cabinetry, repaired our steel frame, and reconfigured our refrigeration system. Everything is a work in progress. And although it seemed like a hindrance at the time, moving into our camper while we were still doing preliminary design work proved to be a blessing in disguise- the longer we lived in it, the more we knew exactly what we wanted and how we wanted it.
​There is no such thing as procrastination
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We live in the present. Tomorrow we may be in a different country, a different month, a different culture, a different universe basically. Time definitely feels like it moves faster when the terrain is changing everyday. We have learned that the time is NOW- embrace it!

​That photo we want to have, a memory for another time in life when we will see it and smile- take it now and have the camera ready- we might not see another sunset like this tomorrow. That unusual food we have never seen before that looks mysteriously delicious and stopped us dead in our tracks with its unbearable smell- try it! We have nothing to lose and we might not have a chance to taste it again. So many of these best snacks are regional or seasonal or just completely distinct to one culture. That compliment we wanted to give to an interesting person who we don't yet know- don't be shy. We may never see this person again. New friends are around every corner if we are willing to open up and start a conversation. That question we have- Ask! There are opportunities all around to learn something new but we may never know the answer if we are too afraid to ask! At first, I think it was our lack of understanding of a new language, but eventually, we just got over it. Who cares if we think we sound weird? It's even more weird to be the only person in the room who is too scared to speak. Yes we made a lot of mistakes but that is how we learned. And without any formal schooling or classes, we are now confident that we can have a basic conversation with pretty much any Spanish-speaker. Maybe not yet the most eloquent, but everything in due time. The important thing is to make the most of every opportunity. Life is extremely fleeting, especially when the road is your home. We have learned that nearly every unfulfilled desire turns into a regret later on. Why not be attentive of these new opportunities to dive right in without abandon?  
We can't do everything
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Or go everywhere. Maybe this seems a bit contrary to what I just said in number 4- but it's true. We have learned that we have to be discerning with both our time and our money. Every place we have traveled, we are constantly being confronted with so many different new experiences in equally amazing places. And we want to try everything- hiking volcanoes, exploring ruins, renting motorcycles, snorkeling, museums, taking tours, going to festivals, hearing live music. Everything sounds so incredible. And it probably is. But honestly, we just can't do it all. We spent six months traveling through Mexico and we still have a list of things that we want to do there next time. Its one of those predicaments of travel- there is always the unexplored, the unexperienced, the unknown. And eventually, we just learned to accept this. Leave something for the wanderlust, the bucket-list, the next time. Learn to live with that appetite. Stay hungry. Keep traveling. Keep that fire alive and one day, likely in divine timing, you will get to return and do that thing you have been dreaming of.
Savor some alone time 
​It's important- it really is! One of the biggest draws to Mark quitting his full-time job and us moving into a camper to travel and see the world was that we would have more time together. Full-time family time to raise our son and remember what is really important in life. And it has been such a blessing. But that doesn't negate the fact that our family of three is growing up in an extremely small living space. We are together nearly constantly and we don't really have much privacy. Taking a few minutes out of each day to be alone with our thoughts is one of the healthiest things we can do for our selves and for each other. It doesn't matter what it is we choose to do, having even 30 minutes everyday to do something on our own has proven to have many benefits for our family unit, and our sanity! A short solo hike, time to read a book, practice a few yoga poses, snap a few photos, or to just stare into the horizon and breathe~ whatever it is, it is medicine to the soul and a really effective way for us all to stay centered and happy.
Create a routine
Since we are traveling with a toddler-aged child (Joey turned two only a week after we set off on this adventure) we knew it would be best to establish a routine. I have always seen that young children thrive best with consistency, and even though our lifestyle involves traveling to new foreign places quite often, there is nothing more consistent than having access to two supportive parents 24/7. We intended to create a basic routine so that Joey could feel secure even amidst a lot of changes in his environment. Every morning we wake up and encourage our son to play independently until we are ready to make our morning smoothies, which he loves participating in by prepping the fruit, getting the bowls ready, and "being in charge" of operating the  blender. After we have our breakfast, we always have a few hours of outdoor activity together which is usually a hike, or a beach day, or some type of sight-seeing. After lunch, we encourage Joey to take a nap, either in his bed if we are stationed somewhere or in his car seat if we have travel planned for the day. We like to know where we are camping before the sun sets and we avoid driving after dark. We always have dinner together then engage Joey in some quiet activity before sleep, usually reading books or doing arts and crafts. Bedtime is filled with snuggles and kisses. Our routine is simple but it really helps him to know what to expect each day even when we are in a totally new place.
Be flexible
We are pretty spontaneous travelers but we usually have some kind of outline of what we are doing next. We do our research about the places we go and we often have some kind of itinerary. But, if things aren't flowing with ease, we have learned its easier to just be flexible. There are days the kiddo doesn't want a nap and we don't fight him anymore. We arrive at a location without realizing its a national holiday, and decide to stay somewhere more low-key. Or we want to go to some attraction but we end up getting a late start and then the lines are insanely long, and we have to stop and ask ourselves What state of mind are we going to be in after standing in line for two hours? Is it worth it? When in doubt, we like to take in internal inventory: What do our bodies tell us- Are we hungry? Are we tired? Maybe we should just be flexible and see what else comes our way today. Open to the magic of what is and let go of the attachment of what we had planned on doing. Interestingly, sometimes the best places and stories come from abandoning our expectations and being open to something even better.
Keep our vibrations high
This is important all the time- whether we are traveling or not, and no matter where we live- understanding that our attitude shapes our reality 100% of the time and regardless of where we are in the world- has really transformed our experience in life. For us, it has been a potent formula for our success and is an ongoing practice of a skill we are working to master. In the last year, we have relied heavily on this technique for our basic survival on our journey into unknown territory. Without a doubt, we have encountered times of anxiety, stress, and frustration in our transits, but dwelling in that energy has only created a downward spiral of what can go wrong, will go wrong. Keeping a positive attitude in challenging situations can turn even the hardest situations around. In our experience, even just a sincere smile has transended the differences of race, language, and social class. The universe will match the vibration we put out, and even in times of struggle, we try to stay optimistic. Our blog reflects this too- of course nothing ever goes exactly as perfect as we planned, but that's just how life goes sometimes. When we choose to be sharing ~the beauty, the humor, the universal love~ it just allows more abundance to flow. Decide what it is we want to remember about this trip, and then setting the intention of what we choose to give our energy to. And if things decide to go horrendously wrong, we try to just remind ourselves that it will probably be a funny story one day. 
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Stay connected
 
​We have met so many wonderful people in our travels, hailing from different countries, speaking different tongues, and in totally different phases of life. Some of our favorite memories of this trip are not just from the places we have been, but the people we met, that leave the most lasting impression. From fellow travelers to people kind enough to host us, taking us on tours of their cities, letting us into their worlds, giving us private lessons of a new passtime, or simply opening their doors and sharing their family with ours. No matter where we are in the world, we have really loved the experience of staying connected with some of these people. There are countless places we would love to return to and when we do, we would love to catch up with some of our lovely hosts from the past. And one other thing we have learned- the world is small. We have unexpectedly run into friends from our travels literally months later and thousands of miles from where we first met. You never know where you will see someone randomly, or when. I genuinely hope that one day, when we have roots in a new place, that we will be able to host some of these people in our own backyard and return the hospitality and warmth that was shown to us. 

Thank you all for following our adventure this past year! We hope you enjoyed the journey as much as we did. 

Want some travel inspiration? Meet some of our traveling friends who keep us inspired every single day by making adventure a way of life!

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http://www.aaaroundtheworld.com
https://www.hereuntilthere.com
https://www.picturingtheamericas.com
18 Comments
KP Pawley link
5/4/2017 22:36:21

What an amazing year you've had. You guys inspire us with the beauty and knowledge you seem to find everyday.

Joey is one lucky (and awesome) kid. We feel honored to have spent a little time with you three and to have snuck into one of your excellently written blog posts.

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Victoria link
5/5/2017 14:04:15

Why thank you! The pleasure is ours :) We are still keeping our fingers crossed for a reunion with you two one day soon! Cheers

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Cristina link
5/6/2017 14:35:46

This is so interesting! The thing that makes it even more interesting is that you are traveling with your son! That's my and my boyfriend's dream for when we'll ever get kids, to be able to travel with them. And of course it's great to see that you don't need a lot in order to be happy. :) Stay on the road!

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Victoria link
5/6/2017 14:53:56

I am glad you enjoyed our post! Traveling with a young child definitely has enhanced our experience in many unexpected ways! We have really appreciated the warmth we have been shown as it seems everyone in Latin America really genuinely adores children. Some of the best experiences just would not have happened without him- birthday parties, new friends, etc. I hope one day you can experience the wonder of traveling with little ones! Its a very special thing :)

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Jean
5/6/2017 18:32:41

Wow what a wonderful adventure your son is having. Van life either works for you or it doesn't. Right now it looks like you're still having a great time!

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:21:36

MOST days! But there are occasionally breakdowns here and there. All part of the process of shedding our attachment and working thru these darn human conditions.

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Rhiannon link
5/6/2017 18:48:37

Wow you've had such a crazy, amazing and fun year! It's interesting to hear how you've managed to travel with a toddler, and I agree, having time alone is important. I hope you continue to have the time of your lives!

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:22:43

Thank you! And thanks for following us along. :)

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Lula Dolz link
5/6/2017 19:23:29

Thank you, this post has really warmed my heart. Firstly, the way you write I almost feel like I know you guys - so honest, open and your responses / ideas are very similar to mine.

I live in the UK and when I was 11 my parents moved me and my younger brother to Spain in a caravan. We spent a few months living in it and it was so special, amazing how little you need (space, things) to be happy. It was so cool.

Lastly, I'm heading to Central in October of this year, I've never been but heard great things and seeing your pics has made me even more excited!

Thanks and here's to sharing the love, who knows maybe I'll bump into you guys on the road!

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:26:16

Yay, thanks for sharing that experience from your childhood! I hope our little guy remembers all this good stuff! We would love an opportunity to do this in Europe. Maybe one day. I know you will have an amazing experience in Central America and if you have any questions or recommendations, feel free to ask! Feliz viaje!

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Jill at Reading the Book link
5/7/2017 03:12:40

What an inspiration you all are! It takes courage to drop everything and go, and it sounds like the decision has paid off massively. Thanks for sharing your stories, advice and amazing pics!

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:27:16

Thanks for reading!

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Lindz @ I've Been Bit! link
5/8/2017 20:30:51

It's amazing what realizations you'll have with such a stark change in lifestyle! I reflect back on my priorities from when I was 10 years younger and compare them to now, and I have some similar conclusions. Although I don't think I could do the full camper van lifestyle, I find it so inspiring!!

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:30:38

Thanks for commenting :) The camper lifestyle isn't for everyone and it does feel like a big responsibility sometimes. But for us, it has been a great learning experience and growth opportunity. I think travel of any kind is so important in that regard.

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Taylor Pawley link
5/9/2017 09:06:45

Congrats on one year on the road!! Love reading about your prespective and how traveling has changed your outlook. I feel it's changed ours for sure! Hope we can meet up with you guys again some day, I miss that little ball of sound and energy you travel with. ; ) Best of luck in the future and Victoria, enjoy the astrology conference, that should be this week right?
Cheers you two!
Taylor

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:32:32

Hey lady! Thank you and yes, the conference was incredible! Hope to see you guys in our (latest) neck of the woods. xoxo

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Chandra Best link
5/9/2017 12:31:18

This is awesome you guys! You rock. 💙🌴💙

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Victoria link
5/18/2017 19:33:33

Thank you! And thanks for being a part of the magic <3

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